Event Management within the perspective of the New Paradigm.
Try this the next time you find yourself in the midst of a dramatic event. Especially an emotional event, incident or experience, that leaves you feeling like a leaf in the wind or piece of seaweed being tossed around, i. e. like totally helpless victim of circumstances.
While the storm is still raging, close your eyes, breath deeply, once.. twice.. three times. Then make this affirmation out loud if your alone, mentally if otherwise: “I am a full consenting participant in this event. So whats the pay off, the end game, what is in this for me”? Breath deeply again, three more time.
Then observe the answers that come freewheeling out of your head; really revealing. This approach has the effect of difusing all anymosity towards the other players, especially those you might have seen as the instigators or opponents.
If you really it do it right it takes you to a place where you will feel grateful toward the opponents or instigators and you will want to say “Thanks I needed that”.
Keep Laughing – More to come.